Intimacy & Pleasure Coaching for Men
Rebecca Beltran · Seattle
For men living with erectile changes, including before and after prostatectomy, and their partners.
I help men and their partners rediscover pleasure, rebuild confidence, and reclaim their masculinity, whether or not erections come with it. I have found a niche working with men before and after prostatectomy.
Who I work with
Men experiencing erectile changes from age, health conditions or surgery. Partners, on their own or together. Many men come to me before they’ve talked about it with anyone in their life. Poly and non-monogamy friendly.
My approach
I start with what sex and pleasure actually provide for you. From there, I help you understand where you really are on the spectrum, not where you think you are compared to what you’ve seen in porn. Clients often find their orgasms again, sometimes in completely new ways, and learn to use arousal in their bodies differently.
Experience
For more than 25 years, as a polyamorous woman, I’ve known a wide variety of partners and clients, many of them older men. I’ve experienced many medical treatments from the partner’s side, and I help couples make them part of an intimate life that’s enjoyable for both people. Partners often notice the change first.
Working together
In person in Seattle or virtually, including by phone. Sessions are as long as you need.
For care providers
I’m glad to answer questions before you refer. I’m not a medical provider; I work alongside each client’s care team.